I was born August 18, 1981, in Rosewood Hospital, Houston, TX. 8:15 am. My birth father is Carlos Gustavo “Chicho” Antelo Tarradelles, a Bolivian national who studied at UH. My mother is Elvira “Viruchy” Delgado Rosello. My real father is Mark Giambi, “real” in the sense that he raised me and had a significant role in who I am today.
My mother left Cuba at a young age — precisely what age no one can be sure; it’s a secret my mother has said she’d take with her to the grave. It was late 1962. My grandfather was involved with a counter revolution to oust Castro, who’d declared his Communist intentions only after gaining popular support and toppling the corrupt Batista regime in 1959. No Cuban thought their country would turn to what it is today. Many feared the worst, but most were in denial or disbelief until the moment the left their home for good.
The Delgados — my mother’s side of the family — had originally settled on the island around 1800. Speculation says that they originated from the Canary Islands, off the coast of Spain. Over a century and a half they accumulated much wealth as sugar farmers, and had survived the wars of independence from Spain by “vacationing” in the US, near Poughkeepsie, NY. My great-great-grandfather became an American citizen at this time, around 1875. He and his family returned to Cuba in 1902.
Cuba was a Spanish colony until the turn of the 20th century. After independence was won, it did not have much experience with self-governance. It was the most economically successful of the Latin American states, due to its dominance in sugar and tobacco production. (The Delgados were among the wealthiest families on the island — founding towns, establishing railroads, donating to schools and churches.) But in terms of politics, it was easier to rely on her wealthy neighbor to the north. Havana became the playground of millionaires. Sinatra performed there, and American gangsters built casinos and hotels. The drug trade was in its infancy. The poor got poorer, the rich got richer. President after president, supported for a while by the US, came and went, each worse and more corrupt than the last. The whole system of government was just a way to make money rather than to implement laws and sustaining infrastructure. Most of the rich families outside of the capital wanted no part in it. They only wanted the land they owned and the money they made in honest work. The Delgados were no different.
Corruption became so rampant in the 1950s that even the wealthy grew tired of it. Redemption came in the form of a young revolutionary by the name of Fidel Castro, aided by his younger brother Raul and a fiery, contemptuous young doctor named Ernesto Guevara, known as “Che” because of his Argentinian birth. From the mountains of the Sierra Maestra they would broadcast guerrilla radio extolling their victories in small skirmishes and battles against Fulgencio Batista’s soldiers. Support for the guerrillas swept the country like wildfire. On January 1st, 1959, Castro rode into Havana victoriously. The country has been his for 50 years.
Castro was now a Communist. In the decade that followed, thousands of people who spoke out against him were placed against a wall and shot. Propaganda, that powerful tool of despots and dictators, replaced billboards and advertisements. Being gay was a crime. Being an artist was a crime. Fishing was a crime (imagine living on an island where fishing is a crime. That’s like saying breathing is a crime). The US was now a foe and the sole culprit to all the malfunctions Cubans had endured. Some Cubans followed Castro like the Apostles followed Christ; he could do no wrong. Most did the smart thing, and the most painful: they left home. The Delgados, again, were no different.
My grandfather, Armando Francisco, was a doctor. He used much of his family’s money to help a small insurgency trying rid the country of communism and Castro. He became public enemy number one for a time being. Eventually he would flee to the US, sending for his family a few months later. My mother told me about how the military police came to the Delgado farm looking for him in the middle of the night. They rounded up the family and farmhands, cooks and nurses (about 40 people in all), shone their jeep headlights at them as well as their Kalashnikov rifles. Had Armando Francisco been found in the house, they would’ve all been shot as conspirators for housing a criminal. He had fled two days before.
The Delgado diaspora spread widely in the last 47 years. Most came to the US: Miami, Chicago, New York, and Houston. Some ended up in Venezuela, Chile, and France.
The Southern US was a different place than it is today. Being mostly rural and agrarian, the South in the 60s was in need of doctors. After a brief stint in Miami my grandfather Armando Francisco found work in Vicksburg, Mississippi. Most would think that at that time a Cuban family moving to a historically Confederate town would have faced racial hardships, but quite the opposite occured. They were treated more like celebrities. They had escaped Communism and embraced American liberties and capitalism. They were hard workers and good students. My grandfather commanded all the respect of a local doctor. A clothing drive was organized by the area church when they first arrived with only what they wore.
Afterwards they moved for a short while to Jackson, Tennessee. But the real lure was Houston. With its burgeoning Medical Center and vast amount of land on the cheap, doctors invaded the city like miners to a gold rush. My grandfather set up private practice in the west end of the city around 1970. The practice is still there, run by his son Alejandro. Their house is still in the same location it was off Westheimer road close to Beltway 8. My grandfather turned 89 on April 5, and with the health problems he faces, we’re afraid he won’t be with us for much longer. He never returned to Cuba.
I look up to my grandfather. I see him as a hero in an epic. Nothing makes me prouder than when people compare me to him, by way of looks or temperement. I knew him as a very proud man, stubborn, only the slightest bit cocky, but strong and very much a family man. And I see myself “returning” to Cuba, settling in my ancestral land, reclaiming the houses and properties lost half a century ago. It’s a nice dream.
Carlos Giambi
